I’ve decided that I need to make a list of things I want to do on a regular basis – soul food things. A bucket list is all good and well but I need a list to live by so here is my list at the moment:

• See, participate and enjoy live music at least once a month
• Eat a new taste/ cuisine at least once a month
• Cook something new at least once a month
• Get a massage at least once a month
• Read one non fiction book per month
• Read at least one fiction book per month
• Try to have breakfast with Cranky Pants at least 4 mornings per week – this is present breakfast no tv, laptops etc
• Make everyone sit down to a meal together at least twice per week – again being present
• Find something to make me smile and laugh EVERY DAY!

This is my living list, I’m sure it will grow and change but it’s a starting point.